At the end of 2024, I just knew I was meeting my soulmate in 2025. It was an intense feeling. As someone who was never big on seeking out love, I knew it was coming to find me. As someone who was content alone, I felt the need to create space in my life for this unknown person. A few days after Christmas, I met a young man. He wasn't my immediate type, but I am a very emotionally led person - so I decided to see where things could go. I was amazed, he worked in Special Education, he was...

It’s been a whole year! Thank you for sticking by UBG & engaging with my blog an entire year later. This blog is my baby, my safe space & I plan to utilize it more in the new year. 2023 was a hard year to navigate and in 2024 I plan to be more transparent about what’s going on. I forgot that I created this blog to support people and I fit into the category as well. I am excited to navigate this new chapter of adulthood and healing with all that will engage. And hopefully I can inspire...

My capacity to love is endless, but my capacity for bullshit has reached it's max. I spent ten months with a man who loved the idea of...